I
thought this was a great article for many reasons. I think it was
important to look into what truly might be affecting parent
involvement in schools and how much can it truly affect student
achievement. I like what was chosen to be focused on- I think they
are key aspects of what goes on with parents: “(1) an emphasis on
relationship building among parents and between parents and
educators, (2) a focus on the leadership development of parents, and
(3) an effort to bridge the gap in culture and power between parents
and educators. We contrast this community-based approach with more
traditional, school-centric, and individualistic approaches to parent
involvement.” I think that many people believe the issues exist
between students and their parents, but I think the true issues are
between parents and educators. Learning to work together and do
what's best for the students (because that is, after all, the reason
these people are even communicating to begin with). I would hope that
all educators are interested in helping parents become more involved
and take advantage of what can be learned from this study: “First,
educators can benefit from taking a patient approach, building
relationships over time. Second, schools may not be able to do parent
engagement work alone; they can profit from the social capital
expertise of community-based organizations. Finally, educators would
benefit from understanding that communities bring different needs,
aspirations, and desires to their children’s education. If
educators collaborate with community partners and help to develop
parent leadership, they can form initiatives that meet the interests,
values, and capacities of any particular school community.” I think
that having the specific cases can help us as educators to truly
realize the simple things we can do to increase parent involvement. I
like that “Camino Nuevo offers parents the opportunities to take
paid positions that use their growing body of skills and knowledge.
Parents are hired as paraprofessionals to work in the cafeteria, in
the office, and as classroom aides.” I know that my mother worked
in the office at my elementary school and also did some substitute
teaching. It was something that I enjoyed her doing.
Urban
Education
An
aspect of parent involvement that we have been starting to pay much
attention to is the fact that students want to be involved but
encounter several issues that prevent them from being fully engaged.
I can imagine how frustrating that might be. I always knew that
parents would react to their children's education in similar ways to
how they dealt with education when they themselves were in school,
but I don't think I realized how big a role this actually played:
“Parents’ educational
histories powerfully shaped their aspirations and beliefs
about their role. Most spoke bitterly of their lack of educational
opportunity, in part due to parents who were obstacles or absent
parties in their education.” I think it would be really hard as a
parent to want to be involved in something that, from their personal
experiences, could be impossible to achieve at. Educators need to
help these parents especially realize they can do more and gain more
by being active in their child's education.
On
a side note, I was very interested in the cues that parents were
taking from their children, and how this would affect most of their
educational careers: “Across the
sample, parents took their cue from their children’s invitations
for involvement, that is, students’ academic performance,
motivation, responsibility, and requests. The Supporters’ view of
their children’s high academic ability and motivation reinforced
their predisposition to be more hands off and to depend on students
to navigate their own college pathways.
The Advocates saw their
academically borderline children as “needing that extra
push” and thus took more hands-on, proactive steps. The Companions
waited for their daughters to assert aspirations or ask for help
rather than impose parental goals or initiate help.” For me
personally, I never had too much trouble in school. I remember being
proactive about asking for help when I needed it. It wasn't always
accessible at home though. My brother was very smart and never needed
help with anything academic, but there would be times when I would
try to ask for help and my parents wouldn't be able to, because they
were not used to having to help. I know if my child needed help with
homework and I was unable to provide the needed help, I would be
upset and somewhat embarrassed. This could be something that happens
to students regularly. Their parents may want nothing to do with the
homework that they don't understand, and now that student is on his
or her own for that assignment. But instead of trying to find out why
a student is not doing his or her homework, we give bad grades for
incomplete assignments. Helping parents to not feel so separated from
their child's education could make a world of a difference.